Ok ma’am, please check about #1, I still think it would have happened..

As a remedy, first thing is of course to let go of the aggression and not behave in a violent manner. Best to apologise to people who were at the receiving end of that or to compensate for any loss they had.
Further, following remedies would help (to be done by your husband as far as possible):

1. Durga saptashati paath with homa, or Chandi homa – can be done every amavasya or alternate amavasya, as per your strength. Most temples perform samuhik puja on every amavasya etc, your husband can take part in that (nominal dakshina). Contribute milk, honey, etc for devi abhishek; or sweet rice (made of jaggery) prasad having spices (dalchini, black pepper, bay leaf, clove, etc) for prasad. Try to be present for the puja if possible. Else someone else can be present on his behalf and can later bring prasad, flowers, etc for him.

2. Donate medicines or spirit for animals who get harmed in accidents or undergo surgeries. If you see an injured or wounded animal who needs help, try to help it or arrange help for it. Even giving it water is a nice thing.
3. Try to stay away from fights and litigations even if a bit has to be sacrificed.
4. Keep sweet water (or sweet milk) for birds and animals (has to be sweetened by adding sugar) regularly. Don’t miss on Saturday, Ashtami, and amavasya. Best if it can be fed to a snake or pig.

5. Perform tarpan when possible (Eg on amavasya, own birthday, Diwali, Akshaya tritiya, Mahalaya amavasya, ashtami, etc). This should be quite helpful. Tarpan is a very liberating and highly cleansing process and is very auspicious. Earlier, it used to be part of the daily nityakarma. You can do it very easily on your own, check manuals / videos of PVR Narasimha Rao.  (If you have some different views on tarpan which you wish to stick with, then you may follow the same).

If possible (medically etc) –

6. Let your husband consume some slightly warm natural/ayurvedic immunity-boosting liquid (Eg tulsi kadha, tulsi green tea, etc) regularly.
7. Ask him to fast on Ekadashi.

Clean your shoes in front of a mirror frequently. Also when you get ready, wear shoes in front of a mirror. Take hibiscus oil, get it blessed by devi Maa in temple, and (after bathing) apply it on your knees in front of a mirror (do this only for 48 days), best if you apply it in the afternoon from 12-1 otherwise apply in the morning.

Thank you for the feedback.

First para of predictions is coming from Jupiter and Saturn combination.
Second para is from energy of Ketu being in Gemini with a bit of Mars.
That is the energy your name carries.
Also when people come to you for advice you would tend to tell them the negative side more (which you feel is the realistic side).

And just keep mixing those energies more and more… everything about you would be predicted by the name, same as the birth chart

When lost in thoughts – are you thinking of old arguments, battles, sports, action scenes, etc.

Is your bedroom door somewhat smaller or do the hinges make a sound?

And also when you spontaneously warn someone about the weather / travelling – you turn out to be right. But you’re bad at explaining directions or giving driving instructions.
Did you have a crush / close friendship with a boy in your neighbourhood – and he moved away after that. The boy would’ve spoken more to less people, walked a lot, switched hobbies often, and had shabby hair.