Sir… I am not giving black and white prediction because you look little confused (I can understand your position and I don’t blame you for that), because you switch between reunion and divorce. Plus there is a child involved. I would suggest some karmik remedies to help you but this is neither directed towards reunion nor divorce, rather I think this is a better solution.

As per your chart, you have asked for a ‘mannat’ or a promise related to family life (child) which you did not fulfil. This was either in kuldevi temple or in a religious place of different religion where there are saints (mosque).
Would have also promised some donation/contribution to guru which was not fulfilled.
Further there was also a promise made to your wife regarding money and authority which was not fulfilled.
The above are cases where you thought the promise is feasible while making it but later found some loophole to not fulfil it or delay it, then it was forgotten.
This is why your issues started in Ve-Ju dasha… June 2020 you would’ve had a chance to prevent this by leaving your comfort zone and compromising with your wife, but it didn’t happen..

What to expect: a transformative period. It will not be a fun ride, but have faith and don’t be tensed. Financial loss and some reduction of peace/respect can be expected. But this will be regained as the pending karma gets balanced. It’ll make you much wiser.

What can be done:

1. Read the story of prabhu Vaman and Raja Bali.. (find some good version online or in a puranic book) for at least 11 Thursday’s. (Read in the morning, sit in temple or house temple and read, light a diya if in house temple, offer some banana and jaggery as prasad whether outside temple or house temple). Start on coming Shukla paksh Thursday (after amavasya).

2. Try to fulfil the above promises to the fullest.

3. Take some sweets, fruit, flower, cloth, paan, kapoor, coconut, and dakshina to the temple and offer it (fully) to god and request him to accept it as a fulfilment for your promises. If panditji gives back sweet/fruit as prasad then distribute it to panditji and other devotees, you consume it in the end. To be done only once on Shukla paksh Thursday.

4. There is certainly a history regarding finances between your father and his sibling (not pinpointing it) because there is a consistent pattern even in divisional charts. Something needs closure there.

5. Clean your house temple on your own every alternate Thursday (if not Thursday, then Saturday – but fix one).

6. Your sadesati has just started in January 2023, and from September 2023 Rahu will also transit over natal Moon. This period of 7.5 years is nothing to be afraid of as it is a good cleansing period and it removes all the internal and external dirt in life, so we may become pure and move ahead. But we have to go through this period gracefully so we do few things to get some help in that. The only thing is that there is a transformative dasha overlapping with a transformative transit, but you do have enough support to sail through so nothing to worry.
Have to do physical exercise regularly (and sweat), at least 4 times per week and drink lots of water. Make a principal to do something for a religious place regularly (every Saturday preferably) – best if it involves ‘shramdaan’. If not religious place then any asylum/welfare place will do. Even giving company to lonely people in such places will be a good start.
Also read either hanuman chalisa or kalabhairav ashtakam daily. Can start on coming Mahashivratri.

7. Observe Saturday fasts (8 weeks fast, then 1 week break, then 8 weeks fast, and so on…). Eat the Saturday fast urad dal khichdi in the evening after sunset. Full procedure can be found online. Also if possible donate 1 time meal to someone needy on this day (if not human then at least to animals or offer atta+jaggery to ants). Also can start from coming Saturday.

Donations and some form of fasting are important for sadesati because that is the lesson it wants to teach us – to share and let go, and to be patient and satisfied in every situation.

8. Whenever you get any free knowledge, advice, puja, books, etc (Jupiter things) from someone – try to repay in any humble way.

Above remedies may look unattractive but they are to untie the karmik knots 🙂

Do share feedback as and when you start the remedies.

(Legal disclaimer: This is a personal view without any assurance, and not a legal, medical, or other professional advice.)

Your D9 ascendant is different in the 2 charts. Make sure time and place of birth is same in both softwares.
You could use birth time rectification to pinpoint. Else just make some simple predictions and see which are applicable to you – either of these can be used to decide which is the D9 lagna.
If you know some technicalities of this calculation, then you can shift them around as well.

If you don’t want all this then it’s just safer to assume JHora is more accurate as that’s a much more reliable and professional software.