Please share birth time as well. However, from the chart attached:

Learning to let go of control is an important lesson in this life for you. You have patience and wisdom, learn to use them to your advantage. Do not get stuck between weighing pros and cons for so long that the opportunity itself is gone, or your conclusion loses its value. You also have a tendency to keep a vision for the long term, this is good – but your 8th house is prominent, so you have to learn to adapt to sudden changes quickly. Also you imagine a lot of fears and negative outcomes – the situation in your imagination is worse than it is in reality – this is the perfect method to increase stress and anxiety, avoid doing this.

You may feel stuck at times but this is because you are not willing to change or not trying to see the situation from a new perspective. 8th house is a place without any control, without any light, without any senses – you feel frustrated because you try to use your 5 senses here. Meditation and yoga will help you – that is one big benefit of this combination. Listen to Osho a little every day – it will really help you.

The good thing about 8th house is that it gives you the first taste of freedom and flying if you let go of fear – it gives you a taste of liberation and the 12th house. On the inside, you already know life is not in control – then why worry? Try to do your best and just leave the outcome to god, take life as it comes.

Also there is a tendency to hold onto emotions for too long – that is not good – learn to release feelings (good and bad) within appropriate time, else they get converted into obsession (Rahu in Cancer – person can be obsessive – plus there is aspect of Saturn, plus your lagna is Scorpio). Try not to keep secrets / suppress emotions due to fear of betrayal etc. Explore and embrace vulnerability in a way that suits you – that is the way to set yourself free. I think journaling or writing down your emotions and then discarding the paper will be a helpful thing to begin with. Also if you feel detached from friends or feel you cannot trust them, try a counsellor – they are quite helpful.

Frequent donations will be beneficial to you. Do not store broken/old/useless items even if you have some emotional value attached to it.

And finally, accept yourself as you are and take the journey of growth from there. If you try to suppress any aspect of yourself, it will simply not work. Do not try to perfect yourself or your life because everything is already perfect. Just take one step at a time and keep faith in god 🙂

Recite Maa Durga kavach and Siddha kunjika stotram everyday, start from shukla paksh Tuesday/Wednesday or upcoming gupta navratri. Pray to Maa for healing, prosperity, and protection and ask forgiveness for intentional/unintentional mistakes… When so many troubles surround us at once, remedies come much later and only blessings of god and guru can save us.

Also, recite 32 names of Maa Durga 3 times everyday (can start from same day as kavach and stotra). And visit Durga Maa temple every Wednesday. Devi worship is complete only with worship of Shivji, so do abhishek with milk then water then apply white chandan on shivling and chant a Shivji mantra (Mahamrityunjay mantra if possible else Om namah shivaay).

Contribute for betterment of small children (especially orphan children) in every way possible (food, education, stationery, living, etc etc). Take this up as a responsibility as if the child is your own child.

Donate some sweet rice (add some citrus taste or pista also) or kheer (make sure to add pista) every amavasya after offering it as prasad to Maa Durga and give it to children as far as possible. Do tarpan and never miss doing it on Mahalaya Amavasya, and also make ample donations on that day.
All this will help in improving health and in working of medicines.

You can be quite moody and short-cut oriented many times, but the remedies have to be done regularly and diligently.
In the multiple surgeries, you must have also had repetitive surgery (like a surgery performed for one problem did not solve it completely and another surgery for the same thing had to be done). There would also be a certain incident related to a child in your in-laws family or your mama’s side……… history of abortions too………

Saturn mahadasha is starting next month and approx 4.5 years of Sade Sati to go – worshipping Shanidev will also bring you lots of strength and clarity. Try to worry less as problems are solved by wisdom rather than worrying.

Another thing for wealth – buy a nice pocket mirror which is yellow in colour (should be elegant and slightly expensive) – keep this in your daily use purse (also try to use it occasionally), and always keep money with it (minimum 500).
Food must be getting wasted at home either by getting spoilt or by burning, that should not happen.
There must be multiple small expenses (especially by your husband) which look small and are not accounted but eventually have an impact on savings – managing them will also help.

Issues related to parents and in-laws which you described are visible in the chart as well… but we cannot forget that no matter what, they are parents and will remain parents… If relations can be mended to at least be stable (may be from a distance if not very close), it is best. If not possible, try to fulfil your duties towards them and be present for giving them care and fulfilling their needs when required…

If your expectation from remedies is reasonable and you’re doing the right remedy in the proper way, and still if no remedies are working, that means you have done something to harm your 5th house and 9th house. The intention is what charges the remedy – if that is malefic or the person is full of doubt, then the outcome of the remedy is also affected.

Do the following and you will see the results:

1. There must be a bad habit cultivated – such as over-indulging in something – leave that, or there would be dirty/dusty/unclean places in the house – that should be kept clean (everything should be clean in fact)

2. House temple – one of the holiest places to be taken for granted easily. Maintain it properly, do the daily puja etc everyday.
3. Go to a temple regularly, everyday if you can, else at least 2-3 times a week. Take something for the deity just out of love – may be 2 bananas or handful of flowers or anything you feel like taking.
4. Donation and contribution – not with the intention to gain anything by doing this, but just with the feeling of gratitude for having something and sharing it with others.
5. Eat sattvik food if possible. If not, at least vegetarian.
6. Feed ants at least 1-2 times a week.

Saakshat Pashupatinath Maharaj Mahadev has blessed you and you’re asking other little humans whether to accept the blessing or not?
If the great ultimate lord of everything has sent you something, please wear it and leave all the astrology and good and bad effects to him – he knows best.
Whether you feel things have gone wrong or right after wearing it – both are just your perception, and what will happen will happen for your ultimate benefit and nothing else 🙂